River and the Rainforest
A Mother's Note on her Son's Life and Death
by Heart Phoenix.
I think people want to know if River ran his course or if he was taken from the world prematurely. River was my first born. He introduced me to motherhood and has been the strongest influence on my life. I feel blessed to have been the woman who held him deep within my being as he grew from a tiny seed. I birthed him at home, suckled him to a chubby two-year-old and then held him in love and awe until his safe passage on October 31. It was incredible to watch River grow. From the beginning, he was a soul filled with passion and a sense of service for others. At a young age he took on the responsibility of sharing the wonderful gifts that were given to him. He diligently taught himself guitar at four, sang on the streets from Venezuela to Westwood, Calif., and wrote music and lyrics seeking to open hearts in a new way. Many of you have been able to experience his openness, gentleness, beauty and vulnerability on the screen. He chose characters that reached inside the souls of the audience, awakening long-forgotten feelings. With River's passing, people the world over have been touched by the loss and once again their deep feelings have surfaced. The coroner's report states that drugs were the cause of death. His friends, co-workers and the rest of our family know that River was not a regular drug user. He lived at home in Florida with us and was almost never a part of the club scene in Los Angeles. He had just arrived in L.A. from the pristine beauty and quietness Utah, where he was filming for six weeks. We feel that the excitement and energy of the Halloween nightclub and party scene were way beyond his usual experience and control. How many other beautiful young souls, who remain anonymous to us, have died by using drugs recreationally? It is my prayer that River's leaving in this way will focus the attention of the world on how painfully the spirits of his generation are being worn down. They are growing up with polluted air, toxic earth and food, and undrinkable water. We are destroying our forests, the ozone layer is being depleted, and AIDS and other diseases are epidemic. The world is a very confusing place for most people and we need to address that. Drugs abuse is a symptom of an unfeeling, materialistic, success-oriented world where the feelings and creativity of young people are not seen as important. Drugs, including alcohol, are used to soften the pain of feeling separated from ourselves, each other and love. We can't just say "Just Say No"--it's ridiculous--we need to offer our children something they can say "yes" to. I have been trying to make sense out of the chaos in relation to the world situation for many years, and with River's passing I feel more clear than ever before. I feel the answer to our destructive nature, which manifests itself in many forms and our inability to love and care for one another, is based on our disconnection from every natural part of who we are. The universe and the earth is a magnificent system of oceans, tribituaries and streams; of electrons, atoms, microorganisms, plants and animals; of plankton, moss and trees. And we, the humans, believe we can stand apart from this living system and say we are the masters. We act as if all of this was put here for us to use, abuse and profit from. We have separated ourselves from the very essence of life in order to raise ourselves up as the ultimate divine expression on earth. River made such a big impression during his life on earth. He found his voice and found his place. And even River, who had the whole world at his fingertips to listen, felt deep frustration that no one heard What is it is going to take? Chernobyl wasn't enough. Exxon Valdez wasn't enough. A bloody war over oil wasn't enough. If river's passing opens our global heart, then I say, Thanks dear, beloved son, for yet another gift to all of us.
This lazy little seaside village on the southern tip of the Nicoya Peninsula attracts an offbeat clientele—on the beach we saw women engaged in psychic channeling. There are a number of places to stay, ranging from pensiones and small hotels to campsites, but you definitely won't find a five-star hotel in Montezuma. Hot water is not always an option, but primitive also means extremely inexpensive. If you're looking for a North American crowd, Sano Banano, owned by the parents of the late actor River Phoenix, has a vegetarian restaurant and cabins for rent (they even show Hollywood movies). Montezuma is on the way to Cabo Blanco Nature Reserve. Be forewarned: Montezuma and the Cabo Blanco Reserve can be inaccessible at times during the rainy season because of washed-out roads. 75 mi/120 km west of San Jose.